love sex and dhokha

To all the girls I've loved before
Who travelled in and out my door
I'm glad they came along
I dedicate this blog
To all the girls I've loved before

To all the girls I once caressed
And may I say I've held the best
For helping me to grow
I owe a lot I know
To all the girls I've loved before

To all the girls who shared my life
Who now are someone else's wives
I'm glad they came along
I dedicate this blog
To all the girls I've loved before

To all the girls who cared for me
Who filled my nights with ecstasy
They live within my heart
I'll always be a part
Of all the girls I've loved before

The winds of change are always blowing
And every time I try to stay
The winds of change continue blowing
And they just carry me away


lol

A little alterartion to a certain Senor'e Iglesias's song and I begin my thought process very much insync with what our man must have gone through in his life had the lyrics meant anything!!!

OK lets start by being cynical!!!
I guess love is a temporary madness. It erupts like an earthquake and then subsides. And when it subsides you have to make a decision. You have to work out whether your roots have become so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you should ever part. Because this is what love is. Love is not breathlessness, it is not excitement, it is not the promulgation of promises of eternal passion. That is just being "in love" which any of us can convince ourselves we are. Love itself is what is left over when being in love has burned away, and this is both an art and a fortunate accident....

Ho Hum...twiddle twiddle!!!!
An old saying which i tell everyone when everytime someone walks away shredding a piece of my heart...Can you live your life on aloo parathas all your life???

He He
I GUESS NOT!!!

Change is the only thing constant and i guess thats the basis of evolution!!!
We see our parents and I see a lot of my friends today...breaking up and making up...n there always is a comparison...look at our generation and look at you guys!!!
In our time marraige meant eternal bonding...
Eternal bonding...what is eternal bonding???
Today the meaning of happiness has been redefined thanks to what we call evolution...doors have been opened where a man and a woman today can make choices...choose who they think is perfect...and when they find out he or she is'nt...they chose again...but the problem is that they want to graduate and that i guess seldom happens and it is happy hunting grounds till the teeth fall off!!!
Now is it correct to deny a person the freedom of their choice...and shouldnt they just be let loose searching for that one non existent soul who is supposed to be made there for you...and when they come home after having done their searching empty handed and tired too lead a dreary life with the next person that walks along????
I guess that is the rule of the road...
People have stopped nurturing and cherishing what they have in the search for something better!!!

I was in school...my first love!!!
Nope not the first girl I kissed!!!
Someone i deeply cared about and desired but did not have the courage to tell...had I things might have stood differently...
Well she left suddenly and I evolved into a soul who decided to tell every woman who crossed my path that I was in love...lol...always searching for that one chance i missed on telling her!!
Life goes on and with a success ratio beyond comparison...Don Juan(mind you not casanova) had been seduced many a times into believing he was in love!!!
Sex became the epitome of love...
But is it???
I have a friend who tells me...You can either have sex with a woman or you can love the woman and if you can do both then you need a psychiatrist!!!
IDIOT!!!!

WHAT IS HE TRYING TO SAY...I WASNT IN LOVE WITH ANY OF MY WOMEN CAUSE I HAD SEX WITH THEM???
HUH...
or that i need a psychiatrist...lol...more like it!!!!

I guess nobody can replace the hurt a person leaving causes...what he can do is get immune to it...and build another home for someone to settle...Mr Iglesias we understand you!!!

A die hard romantic by heart I guess I like the concept of falling in love without learning the concept of sustainance....a fools paradise!!!
Whats the point of building a house in a jiffy when the next earthquake that comes will raze it to the ground!!!!
I would rather take my time waiting for the right person to come along and start with a strong foundation...a foundation no earthquake can shatter!!!
But do such people still exist in todays jet age where they have time to think about foundations???
Well for me i believe in fairytales and I believe that for every adam there is an eve...in yin n yan!!!
Search on dreary traveller and you might find your treasure... maybe you met the wrong people at the right time and the right people at the wrong....maybe you are meant to walk alone...
The love that lasts the longest is maybe the love thats not returned or the love that you had and lost...and comes back and haunts you...that is human nature!!


“You can shed tears that she is gone,
or you can smile because she has lived.
You can close your eyes and pray that she'll come back,
or you can open your eyes and see all she's left.
Your heart can be empty because you can't see her,
or you can be full of the love you shared.
You can turn your back on tomorrow and live yesterday,
or you can be happy for tomorrow because of yesterday.
You can remember her only that she is gone,
or you can cherish her memory and let it live on.
You can cry and close your mind,
be empty and turn your back.
Or you can do what she'd want:
smile, open your eyes, love and go on.”


to all the girls i have loved before......